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<p>From looking at the logs and recreating this scenario in test, it seems to me that your peer <code>sb2pykuwbllsefnc</code> has gone offline  after the trade was confirmed.  The following log exerpt shows the messages exchanged with the peer.  It can be seen that after <code>sb2pykuwbllsefnc</code> disconnects, all further messages get stored in the mailbox, including the trader chat message.  My advice would be to wait until the trade times out, then open mediation.</p>
<pre><code>~/Downloads/kaschmirrr$ grep -i 'sb2pykuwbllsefnc' *.log
b.c.o.OpenOfferManager: Received OfferAvailabilityRequest from sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 with offerId 7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150 and uid 75bc80c2-4498-4405-bb19-dd370cd36a11 
b.c.o.OpenOfferManager: Send OfferAvailabilityResponse with offerId 7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150 and uid 5f638d93-031b-4b8e-a07e-7c1d884e97f9 to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 
b.c.o.OpenOfferManager: Send AckMessage for OfferAvailabilityRequest to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 with offerId 7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150 and sourceUid 75bc80c2-4498-4405-bb19-dd370cd36a11 
b.c.o.OpenOfferManager: AckMessage for OfferAvailabilityRequest arrived at takersNodeAddress sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. offerId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, sourceUid=75bc80c2-4498-4405-bb19-dd370cd36a11 
b.c.o.OpenOfferManager: Received OfferAvailabilityRequest from sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 with offerId 7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150 and uid 7fe320fd-333c-4f73-94c2-93b98b46fd5d 
b.c.o.OpenOfferManager: Send OfferAvailabilityResponse with offerId 7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150 and uid 2981b702-0f9e-42d7-90b1-847466842c04 to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 
b.c.o.OpenOfferManager: Send AckMessage for OfferAvailabilityRequest to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 with offerId 7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150 and sourceUid 7fe320fd-333c-4f73-94c2-93b98b46fd5d 
b.c.o.OpenOfferManager: AckMessage for OfferAvailabilityRequest arrived at takersNodeAddress sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. offerId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, sourceUid=7fe320fd-333c-4f73-94c2-93b98b46fd5d 
b.c.t.TradeManager: Received inputsForDepositTxRequest from sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 with tradeId 7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150 and uid eb8c0526-bc08-4c39-a689-597605958b32 
b.c.t.p.t.m.MakerSendsInputsForDepositTxResponse: Send InputsForDepositTxResponse to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=84278f8d-fa0f-4d63-9374-a154f96fcf88 
b.c.t.p.t.m.MakerSendsInputsForDepositTxResponse: InputsForDepositTxResponse arrived at peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=84278f8d-fa0f-4d63-9374-a154f96fcf88 
b.c.t.p.TradeProtocol: Send AckMessage for InputsForDepositTxRequest to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, sourceUid=eb8c0526-bc08-4c39-a689-597605958b32 
b.c.t.p.TradeProtocol: AckMessage for InputsForDepositTxRequest arrived at peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, sourceUid=eb8c0526-bc08-4c39-a689-597605958b32 
b.c.t.p.BuyerProtocol: Received DelayedPayoutTxSignatureRequest from sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 with tradeId 7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150 and uid d490fce1-4ef9-4476-b0c3-223cfdf9b9ca 
b.c.t.p.t.b.BuyerSendsDelayedPayoutTxSignatureResponse: Send DelayedPayoutTxSignatureResponse to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=4b84f1fb-d4cd-4389-b9f5-52d598fda1c5 
b.c.t.p.t.b.BuyerSendsDelayedPayoutTxSignatureResponse: DelayedPayoutTxSignatureResponse arrived at peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=4b84f1fb-d4cd-4389-b9f5-52d598fda1c5 
b.c.t.p.TradeProtocol: Send AckMessage for DelayedPayoutTxSignatureRequest to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, sourceUid=d490fce1-4ef9-4476-b0c3-223cfdf9b9ca 
b.c.t.p.TradeProtocol: AckMessage for DelayedPayoutTxSignatureRequest arrived at peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, sourceUid=d490fce1-4ef9-4476-b0c3-223cfdf9b9ca 
b.c.t.p.TradeProtocol: Received AckMessage for InputsForDepositTxResponse from sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 with tradeId 7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150 and uid 84278f8d-fa0f-4d63-9374-a154f96fcf88 
b.c.t.p.BuyerProtocol: Received DepositTxAndDelayedPayoutTxMessage from sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 with tradeId 7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150 and uid 7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.TradeProtocol: Send AckMessage for DepositTxAndDelayedPayoutTxMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, sourceUid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.TradeProtocol: AckMessage for DepositTxAndDelayedPayoutTxMessage arrived at peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, sourceUid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.TradeProtocol: Received AckMessage for DelayedPayoutTxSignatureResponse from sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999 with tradeId 7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150 and uid 4b84f1fb-d4cd-4389-b9f5-52d598fda1c5 
b.n.p.p.PeerManager: onDisconnect called: nodeAddress=Optional[sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999], closeConnectionReason=CloseConnectionReason{sendCloseMessage=false, isIntended=false} NO_PROTO_BUFFER_ENV 
b.n.p.p.p.PeerExchangeManager: onDisconnect closeConnectionReason=CloseConnectionReason{sendCloseMessage=false, isIntended=false} NO_PROTO_BUFFER_ENV, nodeAddressOpt=Optional[sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999] 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage stored in mailbox for peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage stored in mailbox for peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage stored in mailbox for peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage stored in mailbox for peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage stored in mailbox for peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.s.SupportManager: Send ChatMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=c899ca59-6957-4872-a3e2-7df48ff6f4aa 
b.c.s.SupportManager: ChatMessage stored in mailbox for peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=c899ca59-6957-4872-a3e2-7df48ff6f4aa 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage stored in mailbox for peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage failed: Peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999, errorMessage=Message was not sufficiently broadcast.
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage stored in mailbox for peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage stored in mailbox for peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage stored in mailbox for peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage stored in mailbox for peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage stored in mailbox for peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage stored in mailbox for peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
b.c.t.p.t.SendMailboxMessageTask: Send CounterCurrencyTransferStartedMessage to peer sb2pykuwbllsefnc.onion:9999. tradeId=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150, uid=7555561-e97513b6-eea5-402a-8625-5b862d47bcd3-150yvhwgmu34yrddoimgrylwnk3shzl65zlvhtdjcte2sdrf4oz7up24zad.onion:9999 
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